no matter what, we strive to look good
almost all of our lives us people are very socially aware about everything. ranging from what shoes you are wearing to even how u put them on, the way we smile, how our voice sounds, we all strive for perfection in our heads and it makes us do certain things or hold back from saying certain things that we otherwise would have done differently if we all just acted ourselves without social pressure of being perfect. everyones idea in their head is that if they aren’t perfect that they aren’t worth as much, and that people will think they are weird. don’t deny it, its easy to SAY you always “act yourself” 100% all the time. It is something to be aware of, if you believe this isn’t you, think about every time you get up to public speak, overtime you talk to someone you like, and notice you get really worried about how you look and what they will think but ask yourself why?
what do you think you or your life would be like if you weren’t this way? if you just never worried and was the most “outgoing self” and cheery? i think some of the people in their life that have managed to overcome this, have really become successful. because they don’t hold themselves back from opportunities and what their heart desires, because there isn’t fear or risk holding them back from being productive. You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take. don’t let your ego get in the way of your desires and opportunities. i make my following conclusions about our egos and how it affects us in these premises:
Premise 1: being socially aware holds us back from possibilities & ourselves
premise 2: we crave perfection
premise 3: we lack self belief and confidence
conclusion: our egos hold us back from getting what we want done and to feel good about ourselves.
to evaluate these premises on truth and validity,
premise 1: can be accepted as truth, i believe it is something we all know.
premise 2: rather it is molded by society, it is definitely true. just look around you.
premise 3: some could argue they are very confident people and that they always believe in themselves but i believe there is even a reason of looking good by saying that.
i believe we all notice these things but never address them to ourselves and its good to get you thinking and something to be aware of in your life, and trying not to let it affect you in any negative way.